How to Post in Social Media Sites Properly

The different kinds of social media were invented to primarily connect important people such as relatives, friends, and acquaintances. This is the best place where we can share different forms of media such as pictures, current events, interests, and also a whole lot more. However, as great as this platform is, the use of social media also comes with a lot of drawbacks on account of the abuse and abuse of a number of its customers.

This is the reason why it is a must for somebody to think a lot of times before submitting anything on social media. Remember, just because you’re behind a screen, it will not make what you are posting unreal.

For this reason, we’ve listed different situations and events that should not be posted on social media.

Date of Birth

The birth of a baby is always an exciting time, and on-lookers waiting for the news of the little one’s arrival will find themselves hovering social media for that always beautiful announcement post. 

This post must come from the parents! It’s their moment, and they are more than likely too busy to update their followers straight away, so be patient. Don’t be the one to steal their thunder if you hear down the grapevine that the baby has arrived. Remember that their family is the priority, so allow them time to spread the news themselves.

Furthermore, birthing a baby is an exhausting thing, parents may want a few days together with the baby before the world comes knocking at their door, and the congratulatory messages pour in. Please respect their privacy! 

Your Personal Information

Posting personal information online is a risky thing to do. People feel safe amongst their online communities, especially those that have tried their hardest to clamp down their privacy settings so that only people who you accept can see their account. 

However, fake accounts are rife, and truthfully the majority of us do have online friends that we don’t actually know. Posting a harmless comment with your phone number or address could see you being a victim of a crime such as fraud and burglary.


Inviting friends and family to an event you are hosting, such as a house party, is a very common thing to use social media for. These sites have specific group pages you can create for this purpose to stop you from posting invitations to the broader network. An open invitation online can travel much further than you think. Posting an open invitation to the entirety of your friends and followers could see you in an uncomfortable position.


Social media has become a useful platform to bring together communities when tackling crime. For example, posting CCTV footage to search for somebody, finding stolen pets, or tracking vehicles involved in a crime. 

This being said, you should avoid posts that incite gossip and speculation as these can do more damage than good to your case if you’re involved in a crime. Discussing your case online, replying to questions, and giving out information about others involved can have serious consequences and hinders the justice system immensely. 

Time of Death

The news of a death is a devastating one, and this news shouldn’t be announced on social media. Yes, posts can be a great way to spread the word far and fast but be empathetic to those who are closest to them and are dealing with their grief privately.

The last thing a family member or close friend wants is to find out via social media that a loved one has passed. If you do have to pass on this information to somebody and can’t meet face to face, then a phone call or even a private message would be a better option than announcing it to the world.  

Take the families to lead and wait for their posts to send condolence messages or share memorable photos. This is another instance where you need to respect the privacy of others. 


Think before you click! Always keep in mind that anything you post on social websites is to the public to see. All this post is going to have a great influence on your life both positively and negatively to your life and private relationship with others. Be certain to protect your privacy and be mindful of your social media posting.

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